Today is the first day of my fortieth year. I’m turning 39, but since we live a full year before turning 1, this is the beginning of my new decade. As I review my 30’s, it becomes clear to me that I spent a lot of those years in service to others. I don’t regret it for a minute. It was certainly called for at the time. After a while, it became second nature — a habit, really. But the… Read more »